Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Punch Drunk Love, and Relationships

Lets See....ummm Relationships!!!

  • Relationships are GIVE and TAKE. To have a successful relationship both parties must find common ground. The relationship should be half and half, both the male and female must make SACRIFICES for it to work. This one girl explained to me that she was deeply hurt because her boyfriend left her because she cheated once, and that's when they first started talking...SILLY MUTHA FUCKA...you cheated on him not the other way around so don't PLAY HURT when you get busted for your wrong doings. ANOTHER THING THAT BOTHERS ME IS...When both parties know that each of them are cheating, and they are cool with it...WTF? WTF? WTF!! Why even waste your time in the relationship? The first trait of any healthy relationship is LOYALTY, after that there comes TRUST, HONESTY, THEN EVENTUALLY LOVE... When will people learn that a heart is not to be messed with, A MAN SCORNED is just as furious as A WOMEN would be. Don't be afraid to be loved!! If someone loves you but you are afraid of putting yourself out there, think about if you lost that person TODAY. Don't let your good thing pass you up. LOVE DON'T COME EASY SO GET IT HOW YOU LIVE, CUZ ANOTHER WOMAN/MAN WILL JUMP AT THE OPPOTUNITY TO LIVE HOW YOU LIVE!! Guaranteed nobody wants to see you happy.

  • Most people attempt the Long Distance relationship thing and thats cool, but when they argue constantly with each other while they're apart, its just that they miss each other. When they see each other again all hostile feelings toward one another disappear into thin air and they can again breathe peace. ALSO!! a relationship is not based on financial stability unless your married. No girl who is not getting married or who is just looking for a boyfriend should say "What can he do for me, I'm expensive" one word: GOLD DIGGER...Ladies if your a dime THATS CHEAP! I'm aiming higher! I want personality more then anything! Does that mean I'm a SOUL DIGGER??LOL
  • But back to the TOPIC AT HAND, If your having problems with your BOO, just express it to them, maybe you can fix it. If its not you having enough time for them, or you acting different in front of your friends then let your mate/spouse/bf/gf know how you feel. I you can't change nothing after you've tried harder then tell them to live with it.

UMM YEA...ANOTHER THING IS...

  • If you had a crush on someone and that person has A GF/BF then let them be. If your any type of friend to that person then you should be happy that they are HAPPY! So yea STUDY TIME BYE...
oh yea...

Thought Provoking Question of the day: If you didn't have hands how many of your friends would actually PRAY FOR YOU?? THINK ABOUT IT

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

That is so right bout them long distance relationships, but getting mad cuz you cant see that person gets old and eventually you just have to move on or move closer to them. Lol I chose to move on.

YaBoyOisdabestHandsDown said...

LOL, your right Idara..but moving on can sometimes effect that significant other in the wrong way...

Anonymous said...

K...I got a question. You say, if you're not married, the finacial stuff shouldn't be a factor right?! ok...well I'm most def not a gold digger, but i surely don't want no broke.......yea...so...

all i'm sayin is, if we goin out, i'm just fine wit payin for my own ish...or we can even take turns!!! but i don't want to be the one takin care of things!! ya feel?!?

YaBoyOisdabestHandsDown said...

LOL...Im just saying if the dude pays all the time the best way to show your respect is to pay for him one time at least shh....