- OK, OK, OK..... I used to be a nice guy...I know its hard to believe now but I used to be the guy who would sit back and let a girl run who I am. If I couldn't get with a girl who I intended to be with I would be down for awhile and I would hate her instead of being her friend. But then times changed and I changed, Its as if my time to shine had come forth and I stopped putting in the effort, unless the girl I was trying to get with would. Also, the same girl I wanted to get with tried to talk to me....WTF?? SO if I be mean to her and treat her like she treats me then she will want to talk to me???? HOW THE HELL... SO If I'm mean she is turned on and I become attractive to her in this mean sort of way? I guess that since she was looking for a BAD GUY, when she knows A GOOD GUY would be the one to treat her like she deserves to be treated.
SO YEA lets compare for a moment...."Bad Guy"= A Bad Guy(Thug)...Will not call you everyday to see how you are doing, He will not go somewhere with you and always pick up the tab, Don't worry about him opening doors for you and surprising you with the littlest of gifts he will not be the one you can call on when you just need to talk, or if you needed someone to confide in. He will not be the one to ask you everyday he's sees you are you okay and is there anything you want to get off your chest you know I'm here for you....
SO WHAT IS THE ATTRACTION??? Do you women who go for the Bad Guys like being mistreated? This girl told me that the idea of having a Bad Guy is knowing that the dude want be to clingy and he will not fall for her as fast and she will have time to be to herself...But then when that happens her FACEBOOK STATUS will change and she will be talking down on him saying how he mistreats her and how he doesn't care for her but isn't that what she asked FOR???
(~Now Enters THE GOOD GUY~)...Good Guy(Too Nice Guy)...This guy will make it his personal duty to make sure that the only time the girl he is with cries is when she watches a sad movie and even then he will be there for her to use his shoulder. He will never mislead her and will try his Best to take care of everything for her the best way he can. These guys are usually not most girls type but why not want a guy who will be there for you?
Girls will complain about not spending time with the Bad Guy but when the Good Guy comes they complain about him spending to much time. They complain about him caring too much about them....WTF?? How can someone care too much? So you saying a girl would rather go through rough times with a dude then to be happy with their man. But then why do they change their statuses on FaceBook when they get done wrong? I guess they like the extra attention of people being in their business. But don't like being the center of attention for their BFs?? WTF is wrong with people?
I feel that a woman should want for the best and receive the best. If you have a guy who is willing to drop everything to spend time with you, or to talk to you then you have a keeper. If you can call/text your dude and when he replies and you smile then yo have a keeper. If he tells you he thought about you tell him you thought about him so his call wont go unanswered. I respect girls having a type of guy they like but everyone needs a change. What type of person doesn't like to be treated right?
Anyway this is only my opinion so let me know what you think?
7 comments:
Whats good my brother from another mother? First off let me just say that you hit the nail right on the head man. I tip my had off to this Blog. Kudos to my bro O.
I can't say how many times I personally have been given the short end of the stick or finished last in the race to go after the girl you like. Even some of the instances when it did work out I was hurt in the end because I was putting in 80% while she was putting in 20%.
Girls keep complaining about how their man is doing them wrong, cheating on them, beating on them, and all other types of things. We all deserve to be treated with the utmost respect so if you can tell someone you really love them then mean it and don't just use it as a cop out. If your fortunate to find someone you can kick it with and be yourself around them 100% then stick with that person and make it work. Getting over the bad times is what makes it all worth while.
(Sorry I wrote so much. It was some stuff on my heart and mind as well).
peacE!
Yes man I had to bring oup this situation cuz most dudes dont get the proper chance they deserve because they are "too nice" I think the Nice guys should be the first to get a turn. Remember the tale of the turtle and the rabbit, the rabbit was arrogant and he let his pride stand in the way of him getting a victory, and women are the same in the sense where the let their arrogance come in the way of their happiness...
Kudos again my brother. I couldn't put it any better myself.
*Steve O gets up and gives a thunderous applaud.*
ok so I had a good comment up here but my computer acted up...so here is just a lil somethin.
I like this.
I always go for the bad boys because they are the kind of boys who catch my eye. And like you said in the blog they are not clingy and what not =]
The good guys are ok, but for me im still liking the bad boys right now!
Ok But believe me when I say its gone ccome a time where one of the bad guys you with push you off something and is getting ready to beat you up....ooops already happened...A good guy will play around and hit you but will never give you the fear that your life is in danger!
LOL ok ok.
But he is LITERALLY crazy.
so he dont count!
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