Lets See Ummm...Past Relationships...
To be quite Honest if you had more then one past relationship then one of them must have gone completely wrong...am I right? Somebody may have cheated or you both argued every hour on the hour about stuff that one of you thought was minor, but the other thought was major. One of the main things may be if someone was a "player" back in the day you may be afraid to trust that person completely. No matter how many times they tell you they're not a player "now" their past you just can't let go. Or the main one is when you've been hurt in the past and vow to never be hurt again... Or maybe you were beaten by your last dude/female and him or her mistreated you daily to the point to where you couldnt take it no more...
I feel that, But you have to forgive and forget. I will never let a past relationship shape the type of person I am. We are all taught to never let anyone run our lives, so why would I let an ex run mine?? I have been cheated on in the worse way but its those things that helps you learn from your mistakes. I'm in the best relationship I've ever been in and regardless of my past I've given my trust to my girl and just hope for the best and i will get the best. But I know a lot people who tell me "well he/she hurt me to bad", and "I will never put myself out there anymore" Im just like grow the UP... Life is never going to be easy for anyone, so why should there be an exception for you?? If you put a 110% into something then you never know you might get 120% back...
The Longer you hold on to the past, the longer it will take you to find something thats good for your future. Not saying that you completely forget your pass because its the past in which makes who we are in the presence, but hold no grudges. I know what your thinking its not that easy but to forgive is to set you free. I don't know about you but being Free is the best feeling in the world and I'm there like STATE FARM....
